March 15, 2014 How often are you really present, open hearted and curious? Here’s how it goes for me. I start my day with the intention to keep my heart open, to be curious and interested, no matter how difficult things get. But then someone doesn’t cooperate, I don’t get my way, I’m not understood. …
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Want People To Trust You More?
March 6, 2014 Here’s an easy and powerful way to make someone feel like they matter, strengthen your relationship with them, and correct a problem all at the same time. In a recent blog post, Seth Godin offered a few key words that are critical if you want to respond effectively to a gently offered …
Use Your Body
2-23-14 Crazy as it may sound, your mind doesn’t always know when you’re in pain – physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually—but your body always knows. Your mind is often so busy that you can have big in-your-face symptoms without even recognizing that your body is screaming: “Stop! Listen to me – I’m here to help!” Here’s …
Your Brilliance Is In The Pause
February 16, 2014 You’re triggered! Something awful has happened. He/she/it isn’t cooperating and you’re powerless over whatever it is that life just handed you. Whether it’s catastrophic or a loss as small as they’ve stopped making your favorite cookies, here’s a fast, elegant way to soothe, ground, and bring yourself back to your brilliant, capable self. …
What’s Your “Go To”?
February 8, 2014 Every one of you has a breaking point. And a place you ‘go to’ when you’ve hit the limit and believe you can’t handle one more thing. Personally, when I hit that point I seamlessly ‘go to’ blaming. Charming, huh? I blame you, the system, the weather—if you/it would just cooperate and …
Exorcism?
January 31, 2014 A client gave me the idea for this post. He wondered if I could perform an exorcism to get rid of some of his unwanted thoughts. Essentially an exorcism is the expulsion or attempted expulsion of an evil spirit from a person or place. The problem with that approach is that if we …
Not Just For The Children
January 24, 2014 I once used a 3rd grade algebra book to learn enough algebra to pass a college math test. I just ran into another opportunity to learn along with children. Click here for the link to a project that’s transforming the experience of elementary school children from out of control and chaotic to one that is fostering a degree of …
I Understand
January 17, 2014 Hmmm…do I really? We think we understand, yet often we’re talking at each other from two seemingly different planets. When I meet with couples I see them individually first, and then together. In our first ‘together’ session, I can almost always sincerely say, “Well, I’ve heard both your stories. They bear no …
A Part Of Me…
January 9, 2014 Lately I’ve been using the words ‘a part of me’ to begin my sentences when I notice I’m struggling with something. Example: ‘a part of me thinks I’m a self-absorbed idiot’, or ‘a part of me wants to give up’, or ‘a part of me thinks I should or shouldn’t feel____’, (insert …
Change = Intention + THE PLAN
December 29, 2013 In a recent Seedlings I talked about change and intention. To reiterate, the change I want for myself is more consistency with my meditation practice. My intention is to create a habit of getting my butt on the pillow on a daily basis. Here’s the plan. I’m adding an accountability factor. I invite you …